I got in a really stupid fight with well a friend. I find the friend is tossed around kind of lossly when you first met someone, you tend to call them a "friend" even if you don't really know them.
A friend needs to be willing to do a few things:
1)They need to want to do you favors just because they don't want to see you upset or they want to make you happy.
2) They have to be willing to tell you something you need to hear, which can be anywhere from you face is dirty or he's cheating on you or even you're acting like a bitch.
3)They have to be able to put up with you when you are having a hard time.
4) They have to be able to give you some support.
5) You have to like them and they have to like you.
So this "friend" I got into a fight with She dosen't do things unless there is something in it for her so she dosen't do one. She tells me things to hurt me not help me so she dosen't really do two. She'll just leave if I'm upset so she dosen't do 3 or 4. Sometime's I really don't like her at all so she dosen't do 5. So I reall can't call her a friend.
Well we got into this really stupid fight but it had to happen I had to many bottled up feelings I had to get out. She was really immutare about it to everything I said she would say that's you or don't bring that up, and at one point she had just simply said you're fucking stupid. Then she throw some fake "facts" about MY religion at me (which may I add she knows nothing about but rather just makes fun of it and says she can because she read some of the bible, but when I ask for the page number for these fack refferences she comes up blank). She twisted my words conpletly I had said something about the play she had said she would do but missed all 5 of the practices so it got cancled all together and she turned it into I'm a bitch because I'm sick but the practices were spred out and she choss to miss some of them. Well that's all I have to say for now if anyone actully read this thank more to come :)
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